5 strategies for taking control of your digital life

5 strategies for taking control of yur digital life5 strategies for taking control of yur digital lifeAmy Blankson is a member of the UN Global Happiness Council, the bestselling author of The Future of Happiness, and the only person to receive a Point of Light from two sitting US Presidents. Srinivas Rao recently hosted her on the Unmistakable Creative Podcast to discuss how to limit distractions, stay grounded, and use technology to make you happier and more productive.Srini What prompted your interest in the future of happiness?Amy In recent years, I kept being asked, How do I deal with feeling overwhelmed by digital devices, and the expectations from employers and friends about communication? Innovation has come flooding into our lives, but our happiness hasnt been able to keep pace. So I started to dig into the research on technology and what its doing to our minds and our happiness levels.Srini Do you mind giving an overview of the five key strategies and how they apply in our lives?Amy Id be happy to. Strategy number one is focus on staying grounded. How do you channel your energy with intention? Knowing how incredibly distracted we are by our devices, what can we do about it?One of the most shocking statistics that I uncovered in my research was that the average smartphone bentzer picks up their phone and unlocks it 150 times a day. Now, if you conservatively estimate that each time you check something it takes approximately one minute, thats two and a half hours of your day. Imagine what that does to our productivity. If you multiply that times the number of hours in the year, you find that 38 days each year are spent checking our phones. Thats major, right? That one-twelfth of our life is completely different than it was 10 years ago. Weve really got to think about, Okay, I know technology and distractions will always be there, so what am I going to do about it?I focus on helping people to ground themselves with intention by plugging into what I call the third prong. If you plug something into the wall and it doesnt have that third prong on it, its easy for the energy to not be channeled properly, and for you to get shocked. The idea is to use this third prong.The third prong is made up of your personal values and beliefs about the world. Do you value quality time? Do you value productivity? Do you value having the latest, greatest tools to accomplish your job? Do you value having downtime in your life? However you create that platzset of values in your life, that should be what determines and helps you identify your intention about technology.Srini To think that you could get back 38 days of your life just by leaving your phone out of the room. Thats shocking. Thats a month-long vacation.Amy Its crazy, right? The other crazy stat that I uncovered was that the National Center for Biotechnology Information recently reported that the human attention span has dropped below that of a goldfish. Its now only eight seconds.Trending Hap piness Expert Gretchen Rubin on Why a Happy Life Starts with Knowing Who You AreSrini I remember reading that, and I have one comment on this. I went on a date last week, and I turned my phone off for the entire date. The quality of the interaction was drastically different from the ones Ive had before it. I was like, Wow, I should always do this. Im a much more charismatic person when I dont have my phone on.Amy Thats a great story. At the very least, keep it out of sight. We find that the mere presence of a cell phone in your line of sight impedes communication because youre expecting that something might come through. Were like Pavlovs dogs, but trained to hear a beep.Strategy number two is all about knowing thyself. Its a phrase that comes from the Temple of Apollo. Knowing who you are is the most important thing, because it shapes all of your choices in life. If you think about every little choice you make throughout your day, its probably about 200 micro-decisions.Do I wake up when my alarm first goes off, or do I snooze? Do I have coffee, or do I not? Do I take my usual route to work, or should I take the scenic route? All of ansicht little choices have major, cumulative impacts on the rest of our day. The more you know about who you are, youre raising your consciousness about your behavior so that you can then make better choices. When youre not conscious of your behavior, youre just reacting.My goal is to use technology to help us be proactive about our choices. Some of the really cool ways that we can learn to do this is by using some technology apps that help you gain that awareness. One of my favorite apps is called Unplugged, and the Unplugged app will track your phone usage. Itll tell you how many times you opened and closed your phone, itll tell you how long you spent on each app, and whether or not that that was a pattern or just a one-time thing.What can emerge from that data is the ability to see what youre spending your time on. Then you can use that to add good tech and take away negative tech. Even though technologys still in your life, its how youre using it thats really important.Srini One of the things that really struck me was how much you talked about wearables.Amy I became addicted to using wearables in my life because they can provide really valuable information. I tried the Spire stone, which studies your breathing to tell you whether youre feeling tense or calm or focused or anxious. It can tell how youre feeling from your breath patterns.I was testing it out for about a week when I learned that my kids were having a schwimmbecken party at home with my husband. My younger daughter jumped into the pool on top of my older daughter and broke her neck.By the time I got home from being out of town, we knew that she was going to be okay, but she still had a tiny bone broken off in her neck. On Monday morning I took her to the doctor to get fitted for a neck brace. I was keeping it together pretty well, but were wa lking out of the hospital, and all of a sudden my Spire stone starts vibrating. Throughout this whole process it hadnt vibrated, but right then it vibrated and it said, Youre feeling tense. I paused and I was like, Really? Now of all times?But I realized that I was actually tense about how other people were going to think about me as a mom of a child with a broken neck because that was the first time someone saw me and my daughter in public with her neck brace on. Im ashamed to say that, but it struck me. It enabled me to raise my awareness in about 30 seconds, and to completely switch my perspective to say, Hey, Im feeling a little anxious about this, but I need to be there for my daughter right now, so let me focus on that.I mightve continued that behavior for a week or more before realizing I was even feeling that. That was one of the first times I really felt like a wearable was super valuable to my awareness and identity, and helped me make better choices in 30 seconds flat.Sri ni That makes me want to buy one. I could probably figure out the times of days when Im going to be the most productive and focused and calm.Amy Absolutely. Just dont wear a wearable for the rest of your life. That would be an imposition on who you are. Just use it for a short-term investment in becoming a better version of yourself, whether its a posture trainer, or something that helps you breathe better, or that helps you drink more water.Srini Okay. Lets get into the other three strategies training your brain, creating a habitat for happiness, and conscious innovation.Amy Strategy number three is training your brain. This strategy is all about using technology to help us progress toward a happier, smarter mind. I centered this strategy around tech and apps that help you infuse positive behaviors in your life.Were trying to train your brain using positive notifications, not as distractions but as reminders to get to somewhere we want to be. We know that simply writing down goals increases the likelihood that you will accomplish them by 42%. Having an app increases that percentage even more. Its that accountability check.When youre not conscious of your behavior, youre just reacting.Srini What about the idea of creating a habitat for happiness?Amy This comes out of my work with Habitat for Humanity. I had the opportunity to speak with CEO Jonathan Reckford a few years ago, and Jonathan shared with me that building a community is not just about building a house. Its about creating sweat equity to create an environment that sets you up for success.You have to think about different spaces around us. Youve got spaces we learn in, spaces we work in, spaces we live in. Each of these spaces has opportunities for us to use the external environment to influence our happiness levels. The external environment is only responsible for about 10% of our happiness, but lets not forget that 10%. It does impact our happiness levels. The book walks through some strategies to s et up the environment to help people be happier.One of my favorite concepts is de-cluttering your house of digital devices, or what I call the digital graveyard. So much technology has cluttered our lives that our homes are becoming these reservoirs of wires and cords that we dont know what to do with. Theyre blocking us from having space to bring in new technologies.Srini You talk about even digital environments, like setting up your computer. I know you did a lot of research around checking email and social media, and the impact on our mental health. Id love to hear what your research revealed about those.Amy Having digital clutter, or any sort of clutter in your environment, makes you less productive and less happy over time. There are always those outliers who really thrive in a messy environment, like Steve Jobs, but I work so much better when I have things organized. I can access them, I feel more inspired- it generates greater feelings of happiness.Srini I know you have some statistics about checking email and social media in terms of how to reduce anxiety and increase happiness. Could you share those?Amy If you check your email only three times a day, that increases your productivity levels by 23%.Its good to create systems to eliminate distractions in your life. Specifically, I encourage people to turn off notifications that are from non-humans. We have a lot of those apps and notifications coming through on our computer and on our phones so that we cant find that place of deep focus to continue our work.The same thing happens with email. We focus a lot on getting rid of spam messages or reading through newsletters and social media feeds, but the key is that were trying to get down to the most important work. Cal Newport writes in his book Deep Focus about this idea of attention residue, that we are losing this attention residue everywhere because were so scattered. What were trying to do is regain that attention and consolidate it so that we can be m ore effective.Srini The fifth strategy is conscious innovation.Amy Conscious innovation is the auf der ganzen welt topic. Its taking this conversation about the future of happiness out of your personal life and starting to think about how we, as humans, can interact on a grander scale to think about happiness.In psychology, we talk about the idea of mirror neurons that shape our ability to interact emotionally with other people in a room, and that a positive or negative emotion like smiling or sighing can spread through a room in about two minutes. If we know that emotions can spread like that, how can happiness spread, and what is our role in that? I challenge people to think about how they can use their own power to shape the future.Theres an individual named Doc Hendley, who used to be a bartender and wanted to make a difference in the world. He wound up creating a different way to create clean water based on the things he had learned from bartending. Hes not a technology expert, he wasnt even an inventor, he had no business background, and yet here he was able to use something that was right there in his sphere to make a huge difference for people all over the world who needed water.Or theres a young girl named Allie, a junior in high school, who took an online course on using 3D printing to create prosthetic hands for children in need. She got the whole class involved. They wound up doing a summer program where they printed 12 hands for children all over the world, and the knowledge that was created there was able to be replicated to help so many other kids as well. She didnt have any expertise or knowledge prior to that. I think that theres ways that each of us can make an impact.When we think about where we want to be 10, 20 years from now, do we want a society where technology divides us, or do we want a society where people use technology to connect for higher purposes? Theyre collaborating, theyre serving as catalysts, theyre engaging with their civi c government. This, for me, is the sweet spot where technology offers so much potential, and the only way that we can tap into that potential is by activating each one of us to work within our own sphere, to think about what we can do, how we can help others, and how we can consciously create that future together.This conversation has been edited and condensed and thisarticlewas originally published onHeleo.com.

1 in 15 Americans over 40 smell odors that arent really there

1 in 15 Americans over 40 smell odors that arent really there1 in 15 Americans over 40 smell odors that arent really thereDo you smell what I smell? While some coworkers are going about their day, your nose may be telling you that something in the office is on fire. The good news is that you are leid alone in smelling this. Phantom smells may actually be more common than we think.InJAMA Otolaryngology-Head and Neck Surgery, researchers from the National Institutes of Health andNational Institute on Deafness and Other Communication Disorders discovered thatone in 15 Americans over the age of 40 have from phantom odor perception, - they are experiencing smells that are not actually there.Whats that smell?Using nationally representative data from 7,417 participants over 40 years of age, the researchers found that many Americans said they sometimes smelled an unpleasant, bad, or burning odor when nothing was there. More women experience these phantom smells than men. Twice as many women as men reported these phantom odors, according to the new study.Smelling a weird smell is not just a distraction, it affects your health. When you cannot smell properly, your body pays a price. Problems with the sense of smell are often overlooked, despite their importance. They can have a big impact on appetite, food preferences, and the ability to smell danger signals such as fire, gas leaks, and spoiled food,Judith A. Cooper, acting director of the NIDCD, said in a statement.Researchers do not know the exact causes of phantom odor perception, but the condition was associated with people in poorer health, those who a history of head injuries, and those who were experiencing dry mouth symptoms. The researchers also suggest that having overactive smell cells could also be a cause.The causes of phantom odor perception are not understood, Kathleen Bainbridge, one of the authors of the study, said. The condition could be related to overactive odor-sensing cells in the nasal cavity or p erhaps a malfunction in the part of the brain that understands odor signals.

U.S. Attorney exits job to cheering crowds, living the dream of every fired employee

U.S. Attorney exits job to cheering crowds, living the dream of every fired employeeU.S. Attorney exits job to cheering crowds, living the dream of every fired employeeAnyone who has seen a friend fired, or been fired himself, dreams of only one thing a recognition of ones heroic contribution to the job.Today, U.S. Attorney Preet Bharara lived that dream. The well-known prosecutor used his office to fine Wall Streets biggest insider traders. Last week, however, Bharara welches asked to resign along with over 42 other attorneys general. Such turnover is common with a new administration, but unusual in Bhararas case since U.S. Attorney General Jeff Sessions reportedly told him his job was safe.Bharara says he was fired after refusing to quit, and other stories indicate he was working on investigations that may have embarrassed the White House.What is indisputable, however, is the remarkable theater of his exit. One thing you can say Preet Bharara does not go out like a punk.The scene i s remarkable. In a moment worthy of the finest Roman emperors, Bharara emerges from the doors of the U.S. Attorneys office to a crowd of emotional, cheering colleagues.Bhararas exit indicates the size of his loyal army, standing behind police barriers, as they would for a parade.As Bharara walks down the steps to great members of the clapping, smiling crowd, bagpipes play behind him.Yes, bagpipes.This isnt the usual sad office party with goodbye cupcakes and limp balloons. Its all very much the stellung of the conquering hero, and the symbolism is all too clear Bharara intends to hold his head high, and his former employer should worry.What are Bhararas thoughts during this epic (and very staged) exit? We may never know. Bharara savvily refuses to ruin the iconic moment with words. To cries from reporters of Mr. Bharara Preet Preet he dismisses the cameras, turns his back and walks into the warm embrace of his appreciative colleagues.Bhararas exit today reminds us of one of the best workplace exits of all time That of Peggy Olson from Draper Price in Mad Men.The lesson is clear No matter what your job - whether youre an advertising associate or a leading light of the Department of Justice - always try to go out in style.